and your moderator cannot stop thinking about her. She is the one being referred to in this week's polling question. Fear not, your moderator will make a decision as to how to play this, and he's pretty sure he's made up his mind, and might even take action tonight. I will say that it would be pretty HIMYM-like if she turned out to be "the one", because she has always been right on the cusp of being part of my life, without ever being a big part of it.
Further, the story of how I met her would be pretty great to tell my kids, because pretty much everything that happened in my life from the time I was born had to happen the way that it did or I would have never met her. The story would also require the telling of how I met at least 3 of my friends, because if I hadn't met any one of them then I wouldn't have met her. Wish me luck.